Discussion I had tonight with someone about death...
Their question to me...
Have you ever lost a very very close loved one? If so... Does the pain "ever" go away?
Yes I have and yes, it goes away. If you are talking about the death of a loved one.
Yes I am. She's the first person I've ever lost that was close and dear to me. I fear that this heartache will never leave. "Everything" seems to remind me of her.
Yes that is very hard. I lost my mother in 2005 and that still tears me apart. But if you have faith in God like I do and I know my mother had then you know they are in a better place and are happier than they could ever be here and we will be reunited one day. So that helps me deal with it.
I'm really sorry to hear that. Thanks for letting me share this. My fiancé thinks I'm crazy and my parents just don't listen to me And sadly I don't have friends. Two days after my great grandmother's death I was laid off from my job. It was and still feels like a huge punch in the stomach. I thought all my prayers had been answered when I got my job simply cause I had finally found a job and the doctors had told us that she was getting better. But as fast as it all turned right side up, it all crashed on me hard.
Yep, all that you have experienced I have been there and done that. And yet through it all I am happy. Advantage of being older than you. Been around the block a few more times and always land on my feet each time no matter what happens. Just pray each day for God's will in your life and God's blessings in all others and doors will open up for you that you did not expect. Works for me.
I really thank you for being here to talk to.
No problem. Anytime.